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Prayer After Miscarriage

Grieving a child known only briefly

Parents who have lost a child to miscarriage turn to Our Lady of Sorrows, who herself held her dead Son in her arms, to find a mother's understanding in their grief. This prayer names a loss that is often invisible to others — a child loved from the first sign of life, mourned before ever being met. Some who pray it also turn to the Prayer in Time of Grief as their sorrow continues in the weeks that follow.

Our Lady of Sorrows, mother who lost her own Son, look with tenderness upon me in the grief of this miscarriage. This child was known to me for so short a time, yet loved already with a mother's whole heart, and its loss has left a silence I did not expect to carry. I do not fully understand why this happened, and I do not ask You to explain it — only to hold this small soul close to you, and to hold me as I grieve. Comfort my body as it heals and my heart as it grows heavy with what might have been. Help those around me to understand this sorrow, and let me trust, even now, that this child rests safely in the mercy of God, and that we are not forever parted. Amen.

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When to Pray This

Pray it in the days immediately after a miscarriage, on the anniversary of the loss, or whenever grief resurfaces unexpectedly — at a due date that never arrived, or seeing another mother's pregnancy. It is especially fitting on the Memorial of Our Lady of Sorrows or during Holy Week, as she stood beneath the Cross.

Benefits of This Prayer

Praying it can bring a mother's grief into the open rather than letting it be carried in silence, and it offers real comfort in trusting the child to God's mercy. Over time it can also ease the isolation many feel after miscarriage, especially when paired with the Prayer for Pregnancy in a future pregnancy marked by fear.

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Illustrated portrait of Our Lady of Sorrows, with a soft halo
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